Boy of boy! Boy oh Man!

So, it's been a while. I've gone through my ups and downs with relationships of the equals. Men are jerks, that's one thing I've come to realize... scratch that, BOYS are jerks. They don't know what they want and everything is an equal playing/battle field. Real relationships drive me bonkers. I can't handle not knowing what he's thinking, reading into things too much, always having to incorporate him into your schedule. It's madness!

I went to the Fairmont yesterday for a much needed glass of wine. I was nursing it when this older gentleman, clearly from out of town sits down next to me. We started chatting in between his business negotiations on his blackberry and iphone and me sipping my wine, watching the olympics on TV. We hit it off.

Sequence of events:

2 glasses of wine

couples massage

back to his room

bottle of wine and strawberries

hand job with stolen massage oil from the spa (it will be left behind in the hotel... don't worry)

some more wine and a couple more strawberries

I tell him I have to go

hands me $500 for cab money and gives me a bottle of wine

Asks if if I want to go shopping tomorrow

Just a lazy Monday afternoon.

Boy did I get it... The life of a Sugar Baby is the life for me!

Back in full force ladies

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Recover, Recovered, Recovering

Things have been slow lately.

I have finally recovered from having my wisdom teeth pulled after a whole 3 weeks! I ended up getting dry socket and an infection. I'm still a little sore, but don't look like a chipmunk anymore. Mr.Dreamy texted me almost everyday to see how I was doing. I thought that was sweet. He's been away on business this week, he gets back tomorrow. I really want to see him again. I'm getting my period though so I may have to put it off until next week. ugh....

Last Friday I met, Mr.Europe (Mr.E) He was incredibly charming. He arranged for a driver to pick me up and then pick him up at the airport - he doesn't live here - then back to his hotel. We got the hotel, and ordered a bottle of champagne and chocolate covered strawberries. mmmmm I was recovering from my wisdom teeth so eating the strawberries was kind of hard but I managed to keep that on the down low. This was a strictly platonic meeting. He talked about places he wanted to take me and getting me my own apartment. Let's hope these aren't empty promises. He wants to spend Thanksgiving with me. I accepted the invitation. I can see myself actually respecting him and I want to genuinely get to know him. I think this is important.

One thing I've noticed is that all the guys I meet say I'm more beautiful in person than my photos. I'm told it's because I don't reveal a great deal of myself in my photos. I feel this attracts the right kind of men.

I decided to do an experiment, I found a picture of a model who looks shockingly very similar to me, however she is in a more, um, sexual pose. The amount of messages I received was astonishing! And I could tell they were from a bunch of bullshitters. So, I will keep my less sexy, more classy pictures, thank-you very much!

maybe I should use this on SA...or is this what the site is about?

XOX,

E

lost....no, but definitely found

I finally found him, let's call him sugar daddy of my dreams, or just Mr.Dreamy.

I met him a few days ago, we went for drinks. He is good looking, charming and funny.

He took me shopping a couple days ago for a new ipod and I am now the proud owner of a 64Gig ipod touch. He is so sweet as well, and in the store he was assertive which turns me on. Later that day I was getting surgery done (my teeth...nothing serious) and he offered me a ride home if I needed it - which I refused because I would never want him, or anyone to see my face ballooned like a chipmunk. He's been texting me everyday to see how I'm doing.

I really hope to have an ongoing relation with him. He's been dating someone for years now, however she isn't physical, which is why he is lookng for a sugarbabe to adore. We haven't been intimate yet, first I like to just offer companionship. I don't want to be used and tossed.

I must say a lot of the guys I've been meeting have been fake and completely dense when it comes to "I'm not a prostitute, I'm a sugar baby" slogan. Call it daddy complex or whatever, but I love the feeling of being taken care of by a man. Mr.Dreamy is refreshing.

Anyways, I'm on cloud nine, besides the fact that I'm as swollen as a chipmunk!

“Don’t worry about losing. If it is right, it happens - the main thing is not to hurry. Nothing good gets away.”

— John Steinbeck

Real BF...what a downer.

I've been seeing the guy, a real guy. With no money, who actually likes me. All that comes to mind is LOSER LOSER LOSER when I see him. Don't get me wrong, he's really sweet and caring but he cannot afford my wardrobe by any means. He's tall, blonde, somewhat dreamy looking but somewhat awkward.

I left Real Guy at home when I went and saw Formula man. He wanted to meet me late at night and I said what the hell...what's dinner for $142. I saw him, however this time he completely disgusted me. it was around 1 AM and he was hungry so we jumped in his car and drove around for half an hour while I attempted to kindly explain to him that the kitchens happen to close around 11:30. I convinced him of this finally and suggested an all night Korean restaurant.

We sat down, ordered, and my disgust grew. His thick glasses, his hunched back, his strawberry blonde curled hair, his overlaped teeth which showed shen he smiled and leaned his head forward like a chicken; the epitome of a disgusting buffoon.

I asked for my meal to be packed up. Looked at him, got up, took the food and left.

142$ is not worth my dignity...he probably would have short changed me $2 anyways.

S left for Europe, I want him to be back. He seemed so genuine and as though he would be the perfect SD. I will definitely contact him at some point, and call when he gets back. We were never intimate but he did offer to buy me an ipod however his son was in a car accident and he had to rush to the hospital. He called the next day but I couldn't see him.

Joe e-mailed with yet another excuse why he hasn't arranged a trip. I send sweet short e-mail back to 'keep me posted' I'll believe it when it happens! If nothing by the end of August, off with his head...or at least off with the e-mails.

I'm meeting guitar man tomorrow. He's 35 and business owner. He used to be a song writer and used to tour...I suppose I will learn more tomorrow. I'm excited and hope this one works out!

I'm off to get ready to meet my Real Guy. If I do find an SD I think it would be wise to be single. I couldn't hurt another person. NOTE TO SELF: Do not get attached.

xoxo
E

Short changed...

Went for lunch with T otherwise known as Formula Man. He is so dorky to the point of being a little hunch backed, high pants and glasses...classic TV portrait of a NERD. He has an accent which makes conversation somewhat of a challenge. He handed me an Economist magazine with $140....according to his formula, 2 hrs = $142..he short changed me! *gasp*

I hate formulas so I do not consider him in the running. My last SD was too too good to me, now that's what I expect. I prefer to actually get along with my SD and I want him to want to help me out, not pay exclusively for only my time. What do you lovely ladies think about this formula thing? It's too rigid for my liking.

S just called me, he is picking me up this evening. I probably should have declined as I have my period. But I'll say I won't be intimate with someone until the 3rd date. Do you tell new SDs that you have your period when you get it? I'm usually too shy about these sorts of things and make up excuses. What is proper etiquette with this? ughhhh, I hate periods. Mine is light and lasts two days so it's not that bad. But it ruins moments! grrrrrr....
I'm going to hint at how I lost my ipod (which I'm pissed about), maybe he will want to go for a little shopping adventure.

Anyways, I'm going to meet my gay best male friend for a drink or two. ahhhh...cocktails.

xoxo
-E

P.S RADAR by Britney Spears is a song which will be added to my hopefully new ipod. I just watched the video for the first time and was also just informed it's not a new song as I thought when I began typing this sentence.

Date Night

I met S tonight. He took me out for a fabulous dinner at a swanky restaurant with an amazing view; mountains, water, raw fish....what more could I want? He is European, recently divorced and recently exited a relationship with a SB of two and a half years (who he still supports)

I love the looks I get in the restaurant! He is about 55yrs old. But the cute, young waiter couldn't keep his thoughts more on his face than he did. I secretly really love the glares as I'm sure the SDs do as well (: Any of you SBs feel the same way when you're out in public with your SD?

After dinner we went back to his place. It was gorgeous, you could see the water and the city. It was absolutely stunning. He has an indoor pool and hottub. We went in the hottub...minus the swimsuits. I didn't sleep with him as I have this rule about the first date and guys. I really like him, he is definitely an interesting character and seems to have an amazing heart. I hope things work out with him. Only downside is he is leaving for Europe in one week (for a family event). Let's see where the rest of the week takes me....

xoxo
E

A year later and I'm drawn back in

Here I am again after a year of saying goodbye to being a sugar babe I'm sucked back in. I have a longing for beautiful material goods. I'm back on Seekingarrangement. I've been chatting with a few guys.

S is highly successful and looking to meet someone a couple times a week. I'm meeting him for dinner on Wednesday. I hope all goes well. Nothing has been discussed, but luckily we're meeting soon.

Formula Man is a bit strange but VERY straightforward. I'm a little thrown off though as he sent me a long e-mail and has this whole formula worked out on how to arrange my allowance. He offers platonic rates too, which I found amusing. I declined his offer to fly to him. He is coming here, I'm having lunch with him on Saturday. (2hr = $142 (platonic) - according to his "formula"). I think I will get a better feel for him when we meet. I'm thinking we go out for wonderful Japanese...I will suggest a trendy, discreet little place. Only downfall....he is married.

A lives outside of Canada and want to fly me to him. An allowance of $2000-4000/month, plus travel and gifts. I have a good feeling about him. We've only exchanged a couple e-mails and he has already given me a $65 online Victoria Secret giftcard (which I bought something I think we will both enjoy) He is single, 55 and has a 3 year old daughter, which is why he wants the SB/SD relationship.

Joe....yes the same Joe from a year ago, funny enough he found me again. He had been away in Africa. We never met last year but he wants to fly me down twice a month. Set me up in a hotel, and give me an allowance of $1000 per visit, which will mostly be just overnight stays.

S,T, A, Joe....which one will come through? I guess only time can tell...I am certainly not patient though.

xoxo
SB

To do:

-hair
-nails
-lose some weight (don't need to, but I always say I would like to)
-Clear skin - I'm not sure why but it broke out a little last week, now its healing.

A Daily Thought

“ I don’t like formulas,
I don’t like clothes that are rigid,
And I don’t like people who are rigid.
I like freedom”

- Alber Elbaz for Lanvin

I also don't like wondering if I'm capable of love.

The Breakdown

I feel I should give a summary of all the guys I'm seeing/corresponding with. Now for my favourite part, coming up with interesting nicknames. I think I'm going to use superhero names...it seems fitting enough.

1. Superman - first guy I talked to when seriously considering a SD/SB relationship. He's only 30, very handsome, and a complete dog. I found him on CL so telling him lies about myself was inevitable. I have yet to see any sign of his finances besides pictures of his place. I've met with him once. The first time was casual, the second time we made out and thats it. I don't think he is serious about this, and seems to be untrustworthy. I will never use CL again!

2. Batman - Met him off seekingarrangements. Seems to be the most straightforward guy I've talked to and the most down to earth. We've gone out a few times and had sex a couple. He's not the best looking guy but I actually enjoy his company. He takes me out for a nice time, and takes me to the best restaurants in the city which is nice. The sex is...well...loveless sex. I made about $1000 so far.

3. Spider-Man - This guy is married, we've only e-mailed, but he's willing to pay about $400 for a few hours of fun every week. I tried to get more but he said he wasn't quite a millionaire yet. But it is weekly, and even though he isn't the best looking, I could really use some quick cash. (what's that you say...I'm becoming a high class hooker?) Maybe some form of a relationship will blossom, he did say he would bring gifts.

4.Joe - (I can't think of anymore superhero names) I've talked to him on the phone. He seems genuine. He grew up where I live but lives further away now. He offered to fly me there and stay in a fancy hotel. I think I'm going to do it. I should call him tonight. I'm kind of scared of flying out to meet someone. I wish I could talk to someone about this issue...but I'm sure my newfound status would not be amusing to the masses...or any of my friends.

Those are the only ones I see fit to mention at the moment. Now for my list of things to do:

-Get nails done
-grow out hair and get waxed (full body) - this seems the hardest to accomplish maybe I should just get the Brazilian for now and get the rest done when I start making more money.
-eat only salads this week
-study for my biology and French exam coming up this week
-go to the gym

SB
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How it Started

Well I'm living with a family friend and my mom won't give me enough money, or at least I can't make her money last. What can I say...I happen to enjoy the finer things in life. My journey actually started with my infatuation with Craigslist. This funny little site that offers absolutely everything. I started by looking for an old record player...innocent enough, until I found my way to the personal ads. The things people offer! *gasp* Being beautiful in exchange for money. I can do that!

I don't trust CL though, so I never furthered my cause in pursuing any of the ads advertising a sugar daddy relationship. Well that's not entirely true; I talked this one guy once and it was late at night and he asked if I wanted to hang out. He described himself as attractive, my gut told me he was a bit odd. He drove downtown (that's where I live) and as soon as the car pulled up, I walked over in my sexy skirt so he could see how long my legs are, as soon as I got to the car he rolled down the window and I said "I'm sorry, but this isn't happening" he rolled up his window and drove off. He seriously looked like he was an alcoholic who drifts from shelter to shelter...he just seemed as though he showered more often. I didn't think about a mutually beneficial relationship until 3 months later.

Now I'm on seekingarrangements, the one site you can count on to meet someone who suits your needs.

Will write more on my encounters soon.

SB
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